What happen to competing and striving to be successful?

What happen to competing and striving to be successful?

Somewhere along the way we have accepted or changed our views about teaching our children to be competitive and its value in becoming successful. It seems today that being competitive is looked down on; we hear comments such as you only want to win and you will do anything to win. I can see that type of attitude if all you’re teaching and all that is important is the win itself, but there is much more value to be learned from competition. business-Competition

Being competitive is a requirement to survive:

Every day we have to compete to survive, but yet we seem to not want to teach our children this valuable lesson. I must ask. How will they survive in today’s global world where we are always competing against someone or something from across the entire globe?  Yet we now have games were its forbidden to keep score because we might offend the person who loses. Please people! COMPETITION-CHALLENGES-600x280Losing is part of the education of life, if you never lose you will never learn from those failures, worst yet as we teach our children that competitiveness is bad we are disabling them in the real world. To become an athlete, get a job, be successful in business, win an election, get into College, be the best you can be all require you to compete to achieve them, so why is it bad to teach competitiveness?

When you lose, YOU WIN!

Losing teaches you how to become resilience, how to adapt and move on and use your defeat to build your inner strength and develop a no quit attitude. The most successful people in the world have all failed in their lifetimes, but they became successful because they learned the lesson of defeat and moved forward to try again and again until they succeed. Simple they learned how to compete!

In order to succeed, we must embrace our competitive nature:Steps-to success

In order to succeed we must learn to lose, in order to learn to lose we must keep score, we must have a winner and a loser, but we must teach our children that it is about competing and getting better that is important not just the WIN! The only way your child is going to be able to overcome setbacks in life is to learn to be competitive and see the value in competition and working towards success.


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Wealth Building

Wealth Building:   dollar-army-1-1162216-s

What is wealth building? It’s very simple, its called discipline, you must be discipline enough to wait for you wants, while keeping your needs to a manageable amount. Wealth building is something that is long term, not an overnight get rich scheme.

Wants and Needs:

The difference between wants and needs is a need is something you must have to survive, like food and shelter. A want is something you really would like to have (buy) but could get by without it or could wait until you save to pay cash for it, like a new pair of shoes or the latest TV.

Build Wealth:

How do you build wealth? It all begins with a budget of your expenses, you must sit down and determine how you spend every penny and then make a budget of those expenses and determine what you actually spend on needs and what you spend on the wants. The goal is to create a budget that you can afford and be able to save 20% of your income. Look for ways to save money your spending on your needs and then make sure you pay yourself first (20%) before spending anything on the wants.

Pay Yourself First:  money

When we say pay yourself first, we mean you need to take 20% of all your income and begin to save it, forget you ever had it and put it into a wealth building savings plan. Now your saying I don’t make enough to save 20%, YES you do, find the things you can cut from your budget, you will never find your way out unless you begin to build wealth today!

Three Steps to Building Wealth:

1. Open a checking account (keep your monthly expenses there)

2. Open a savings account (keep your 20% there, save 6 months of your living expenses there as an emergency fund)

3. Open a long term investment account (i.e. Mutual fund, Roth IRA)


Your need to have the idea that any money I have needs to be making money (your money should be making money) Once you have your emergency fund built, look for long term investments (Mutual Funds) to gain the most earned interest on your money. When your money begins to compound (interest making interest) you begin the wealth building process and soon you will value your money and how you spend it.

The Time Value of Money:

There is a huge advantage to investing early. Having your principal and interest making money (compounding) early can build bigger wealth then someone who starts later; even if they invested more in the later years your early investment will create more wealth.

Example: You invest $2,000 a year (7% interest)  when your 18 years old for 10 years ($20,000 total investment) and never invest another dime. The next person begins investing at the age of 31 and invest $2000 per year (7% interest) ($70,000 total investment)  for the next 35 years. At age 65 who has more money?

Person who begins at 18 years old ($20,000 total investment ) has $361,418.00

Person who begins at 31 years old ($70,000 total investment) has $276,474.00

That’s a difference of $84,944.00 just for investing at a younger age, even though they invested less they come out with more.

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Keeping a Positive Attitude

Keeping a Positive Attitude

In today’s fast paced world we are always on the go and never really take the time to sit and reflect on what is going good and what is going bad. I urge you to take that time, you must find the time to just sit and reflect on each day and ask yourself what went good today? What went bad today? What will I do to change the bad?

Positive In – Positive Out:

I have found that the only way to keep a positive attitude is to put positive thoughts, people and positiveinformation into your daily schedule. You must seek out the positive people, videos, podcast and information and make sure you listen and read it on a daily basis. What goes in the mind, comes out of the mind. What to stay positive then feed your mind with positive information.

Start today with these 15 Videos:

Click the link and start to feed your mind with these 15 videos that will begin to change your life and your attitude: 15 TED Talks That Will Change Your Life

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Overcoming Setbacks

Overcoming Setbacks

How do you overcome setbacks? failure

Many have asked me how you continue to move forward daily when you have major setbacks in life. How do you overcome setbacks? Overcoming setbacks is a reflection process for me: bad things are going to happen in life, it’s all part of the process, you can either get stuck at that point of your life or move forward and gain from the experience.

Life alerting events:

Yes that is easier said than done, some setbacks in life are major life alerting events, it truly is at this point in your life that you have to ask yourself, will this be the moment that defines me for the rest of my life or will I choose to find a way to move on and continue to live my life to the fullest.

What is a life alerting event?

What is a life alerting event: something that hits you so hard you’re not sure you can get up from the setback? i.e.: Loss of a love one, business failure, financial set back (bankruptcy) etc. I have suffered through some major life alerting events and have found myself just floating through life always dwelling on the event every time I need to make decisions or do something in life my mind would go back to the setback. How do you overcome this? Through the process of Moving Forward.

The Process of Moving Forward:

positve wordsI have found that if you go through a five step reflection or healing process its helps you to sort out the event and find some kind of positive from it and then use that positive to move past the event. Don’t get me wrong here, you’re not forgetting about the event, you’re just learning from it. The major setback (event) will also be part of your history, but hopefully it will no longer define you.

Five step reflection or healing process:

  1. Why me?
  2. How do I choose to view the setback?
  3. List something good that came out of the setback?
  4. How can I reshape the event in my mind?
  5. Put into place the positive views of the setback and then dwell on them.

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Why Me?

So why did this happen to me, this may be hard to hear but guess what; it didn’t happen to just you, it happens too many of us, it’s part of life. The journey of life will deal us some major setbacks, you’re not alone it’s not just happening to you! So don’t look at the setback as it’s something you did wrong, find out how it happen and how you can keep it from happening again.

How do I choose to view the setback?

The way you determine to view the event (setback) in your mind is the way it will define you for the rest of your life. Did you lose your business because the worlds against you or it was someone else’s fault? When you view it that way then you are creating a negative response to the event. The best way to move past a major setback is to take full responsibility for it no matter what happen. When you take responsibility for setbacks in life you now own it and can find a way to get better from it and move forward. Find a way to view the event in a positive light.

List something good that came out of the setback?

Make a list of the good things that came out of the setback. You may feel nothing good happen from positivethe event, but I will bet if you reflect deeply on it you will find something. Maybe it’s only the fact that you admit something you would of did differently the next time. Build on that thought and replace the negative with the positive thought in your mind and the healing process begins.

How can I reshape the event in my mind?

Now build on that positive thought and reshape the event in your mind; yes it was a tragedy, but if it didn’t happen, this positive that came out of it wouldn’t have happened. Now the event has become a positive and you can begin to heal.

Put into place the positive views of the setback and then dwell on them:

Put the positive views into your mind when you recall the event and dwell on them your outlook will change and you will begin to develop a move forward attitude. The art of resilience will become a part of the process when setbacks happen in your life and you will be able to deal with them in a positive light and not let them derail your life but enable you to develop that GET BETTER attitude and MOVE FORWARD approach.

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Developing Football Mental Toughness

Developing Football Mental Toughness

What is Mental Toughness? The definition varies depending on who you may speak with, Wikipedia defines it as: Mental toughness is a collection of attributes that allow a person to persevere through difficult circumstances (such as difficult training or difficult competitive situations in games) and emerge without losing confidence. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mental_toughness)

Mental Toughness:

I believe their definition is correct, mental toughness is the ability to move forward in any situation  Mental Toughnesstowards your ultimate goal. Easier said then done, so how do we develop and teach mental toughness. I think you develop and teach mental toughness through a positive approach and reinforcement. All too often coaches stress the negative in a play or training drill; they get into the face of the player and ask what’s wrong with you? Why can’t you do this correctly? I find that is the wrong approach; all coaches are doing in that situation is reaffirming to the player that something is wrong with him. The player begins to develop a sense of no confidence in themselves and their ability, they begin to question everything their doing and in the process we lose the aggressiveness that is needed in the game of football to be successful.

Take the Positive Approach:

Players today don’t seem to react to a negative teaching philosophy were everything is looked at as you’re not good enough, you can’t perform at the level required, something must be wrong with you. Players with that approach develop a closed mindset, always associating failure or mistakes with I’m not good enough to be successful. With that type of mindset a player will not be successful and will always think first, react second. In the game of football like many sports you need to react in a moment’s notice, without a positive outlook of yourself and your abilities you will not.

Accept Failure and Mistakes:

We as coaches must learn that failure and mistakes is all part of the players growing process and Toughness should not define who he is or how talented he is. I teach that I want you to fail and make mistakes, it’s all part of the learning process. If we truly believe that then we need to find the positive in each experience and relate that to our players. To me it’s all about getting better every day, so why not preach it! If we have that mindset that we will get better each day, then we must show and teach our players it’s OK to try and fail, as long as we are learning and getting better, we are exceeding.

Turn a closed mindset into a growth mindset:

When we find and teach the positives in what players are doing they begin to develop that Mental Toughness that is required to move from one play to the next and forget about the good or bad that just happen. When a player is not confident in his abilities he associates failure or mistakes with not being successful and develops a closed mindset to taking a chance; thinking first instead of being aggressive. When a player knows that even if he makes a mistake, he will get positive feedback and learn from the experience they start to develop that growth mindset. The mindset of taking a chance will make me better and help me grow as a player and a person.

Positive is always better then negative:

When you begin to develop a positive approach and attitude towards your players and how they perform the entire program begins a positive change of events. Everyone in the organization looks at failure and mistakes as part of the growing and learning process. What begins to happen is success begins to take place because everyone has lost that fear of failing, they have truly develop the mental toughness to MOVE FORWARD know matter what happens.


When your team develops a move forward attitude you start to reach new highs and milestones; as a program you begin to win those close games and big situations because your staff, and players are keep_moving_forwardno longer thinking with a closed mindset, but a growth mindset;  where good things will happen if we are aggressive and take that chance. When you reach that stage the pieces of developing a championship program are in place.

Fear is gone! Success is right around the corner – A team approach develops – Mental Toughness sets in!

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Move Forward – The art of resilience

Move Forward – The art of resilience

The New Year has begun, many have made their personal resolutions about what they plan to accomplish during this year. Many of those resolutions will be broken before the month ends. Why?


Most people let a small failure derail there success, once the process gets a little tough, a high percentage of people can’t get passed the setback and fall right back into the bad habit that they were trying to get rid of.

What’s the secret?

Moving Forward! To obtain anything in this life you must develop a move forward attitude. I call it the art of resilience, never letting yourself lose sight of the original goal, telling yourself daily its the goal that matters not the small stuff that happens in between. Many will say that’s easy for you to say, you question-mark don’t know the bad things that have happen to me. My response: I’m sure I don’t know or had to deal with many things that have happen in your lifetime, but I can tell you my story and see if you can relate and find the strength to develop a MOVE FORWARD attitude.

Failure the road to success:

I can tell you this I have overcome some huge failures and major life setbacks over the years. I have built some successful companies, but on the other hand have suffered through losing everything several times from companies going bad and out of business. I have started my life over several times and it is through those tough times that I found the only really secret to this thing called success is resilience (Moving Forward) never quitting until you reach the target.

Major life setbacks:

Some of you reading this may of suffered some major setbacks in life, I mean those things that happen that you think are impossible to overcome. I have suffered some of these things also (loss of a child) and have found the only way to get pass them is to focus on the larger picture, you cannot let things that happen in the past, keep you from moving forward into the future. You must develop a MOVE FORWARD mentality. Take a step forward each day towards whatever that goal is and never stop until you get there, even if it takes several years or more.

Learned Helplessness – Closed Mindset

What I have found through the years in my own experience is that you fall into what is called learned Helplessness or a closed mindset. Its the result from experiencing some type of uncontrollable event that causes people to expect future failure. They have learned that success means your good and they have concluded that any setback or difficulty means they are not.

Develop a Growth Mindset:

It is at this time in your life that you cannot let some setbacks, failure or life changing event control growthyou and make you go into depression. This depression or lack of motivation is normal and a part of the grieving process, you cannot let it define you and control you. Many people at this time tend to question their ability in the face of failure and shut down. Developing a growth mindset is what is required, you need to change the way you think and what goes into your mind. Use the setbacks, failures and so forth as your motivation to “Get Better” learn from the event and use it to your advantage to succeed in whatever goal you have.

The art of resilience:

The art of resilience is no more then learning to move forward daily, no matter what happens. Keep you sight on the long term goal and do something daily towards achieving that goal. Its the daily MOVE FORWARD steps that will eventually lead to success. Keep Moving Forward and you will get there!

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Product Review: HP Pavilion X2 10.1-Inch Detachable 2 in 1 Touchscreen Laptop (64GB)

Product Review:

HP Pavilion X2 10.1-Inch Detachable 2 in 1 Touchscreen Laptop (64GB)



Name: HP Pavilion X2
Website: http://amzn.to/1B4ugMY
Price: From: $289.99 to $349.99 at Amazon
Overall Rank: 4 out of 5 Stars

HP Pavilion X2, Product Overview:

Travels like a tablet. Works like a laptop

With a detachable keyboard and a built-in cover that adjusts your tablet’s viewing angle, the HP Pavilion x2 transitions seamlessly between a tablet and a notebook.

The power to get things done, fast

Software: Office 365 Personal 1year – Office 365 Personal 1 year subscription included. Office activation required within a limited time.

Touchscreen:  10.1-inch diagonal, HD3 IPS touchscreen – Designed for both productivity and HD3 entertainment, it’s aIPS dream to interact with. Big enough to share, bright enough to focus on, it’s perfect for work and play.

Design: Ultra-portable design – Easily take this thin and light PC from room to room or on the road. It’s ultra-portable as a PC or a tablet.

Keyboard: Built for comfort – Type comfortably with tactility of a real keyboard without compromising size.

Active stylus, sold separately: Write, point, and tap with more accuracy than ever with the active stylus.4

Processor: Quad core Intel® processor – Keep up with your most demanding tasks while preserving battery life with the speed and responsiveness of the powerful Intel® processor.

Product Features:

Ultra-portable and incredibly affordable, the HP Pavilion x2 transforms from a tablet to a laptop in a snap.

  • Intel Atom Z3736F Processor                                  fdf4f44a-ab41-4944-941e-e6b63540b3e5._V320328211__SR285,285_
  • 64 GB Solid-State Drive
  • 1-Inch Screen, Intel HD graphics
  • Windows 8.1 with Bing

Brand Name HP

Series HP Pavilion

Item model number  K3N13UA#ABA

Hardware Platform   PC

Operating System    Windows 8.1

Item Weight   2.5 pounds

Item Dimensions L x W x H            6.69 x 10.39 x 0.38 inches

Processor Brand      Intel

Processor Count      1

Flash Memory Size  2.0

Hard Drive Rotational Speed         5400 RPM

Audio-out Ports (#)  1

Batteries:       1 Lithium ion batteries required. (included)

My Opinion of HP Pavilion X2

Good: The price point is low enough for the student to purchase and the 2 in 1 design allows for use as a tablet or full out windows PC. The HP Pavilion X2 provides enough power for applications for the home or office along with full internet access. The battery can last for a day with one charge. The 10.1 screen offers good brightness and contrast.    en-INTL-L-Office-365-Personal-QQ2-00031-mnco

Bad: Only comes with an Office 365 Personal for 1-year. The renewal of Office 365 Personal is $69.99 per year. Office 365 Personal comes with the following Microsoft applications: Word, Excel, One Note, Power Point, Outlook, Access and Publisher.

MY Top Features of the HP Pavilion X2:

10.1-inch diagonal,                              c04408898

HD touchscreen

Enjoy clearer, brighter web chats1 with a difference you can see and hear.

Fan less design

Say goodbye to whirring fans. Your PC can run cool and quiet, with no noisy hardware or unsightly vents, thanks to an innovative design that eliminates the fan.


With a detachable keyboard and a built-in cover that adjusts your tablet’s viewing angle, the HP Pavilion x2 will keep you entertained and on the go. A truly talented tablet that transitions seamlessly between a tablet and a notebook, as playful on the go as it is productive at work.

Long battery life

With a battery that lasts up to 11 ¾ hours, the HP Pavilion x2 has serious staying power that takes you from work to play without missing a beat.2

Fully Productive Windows PC

Ultra-portable and incredibly affordable, the HP Pavilion x2 transforms from a tablet to a laptop in a snap.

HP Pavilion X2 at a Glance…
Name: HP Official Website: http://bit.ly/1xggLZl
Best Purchase Prices were found on Amazon: http://amzn.to/1B4ugMY
Price: $289.99 to $329.99

Ultra-portable and incredibly affordable, the HP Pavilion x2 transforms from a tablet to a notebook in a snap. With the power of Windows 8.1 you need for work, and the tablet you want to stay entertained, it goes with you everywhere at a price that’s just right.
VERDICT: Well worth the price for this durable 2 in 1 tablet/laptop.

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Determining My Career – Choose My Career

Determining My Career – Choose My Career

How do you go about determining your career? How do you choose your career? There comes a  graduate-time in your life where you ask yourself what should my career be? What should I do when determining my career? How do I choose my career?  Short answer is find your passion and make it your career.

Finding my career passion:

If you want to live a happy life and enjoy getting up everyday and doing what you love to do, then find your passion and make it your career. Ever hear the old saying “Make your life work your passion and you will never work a day in your life”. So how do you find out what your passion is? Quick question what would you get up everyday and do if money wasn’t the objective, what would you do for free. That is a start to finding your passion.

The process of finding your career:

I have taught and used a simple process of finding my passion and matching it to a career. It is a  question-markseveral step process but first you must find out who you are, what makes you tick. Start with a simple assignment write down your Autobiography. Ask yourself some questions about your life, i.e. write at least a paragraph about each of these topics: Who is your family? Where you have lived and traveled? What are your educational and life goals? What are your interests, hobbies, special talents? What are your beliefs and opinions about the world today? With those answers you can start to develop your interests and what you enjoy doing. Remember find what you enjoy to do and make it your career. The worst mistake someone can make in life is to let others (Friends, Parents, etc) tell them who they are and what they should be doing with their career and life. Only you know you! Only you can make those decisions if you really want to find that inner happiness.


Getting to know yourself: The Steps in the process

The next step in the process is getting to know yourself. What are your interests? Identify your values and consider your personality and learning style. These are all part of the process to determine who you are, what you love to do and how you take that information and make a career choice. So what are your interests: write down ten things you love to do in your leisure time. Then write down 10 words that describe the kind of person you are. Then list 10 words that describe the kind of person you are not. Take all this information and use it to determine a pattern of your interests, values and personality and then research careers that will match these items. I have created some worksheets that will ask you questions and you can total up your responses to help determine all this information (see below how to obtain a copy). One of the items I use to help arrange this information into a format for decision making is called a Personal Inventory Outline. The outline lists possible careers and what is needed to achieve them, your personal profile which lists your interest, values and personality type along with your long and short range goals. For a copy of the Personal Inventory Outline Worksheet send me a email at CoachP@InspiringThem.com 

Find Your Career:

To research current information and find out which careers are expected to offer the greatest  business-man opportunity over the next several years view the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics Website and use the Occupational Outlook Handbook to answer four questions that will help you determine your career.

1. Which ten industries are projected to grow the fastest through 2022?

2. Which ten occupations are projected to grow the fastest through 2022?

3. What educational level is needed for each of the ten occupations?

4. Select four occupations that interest you and research the rate of job growth and the median earnings for each?

Use this information along with the information you obtained about yourself and your passion and start to make some decisions in a career path you would like to follow that really draws your interest and you could see yourself doing even it it wasn’t for the money. Remember find your passion and make it your career!

If you would like to obtain any of the following worksheets for making your career decisions please send me an email and I will forward a copy to you: CoachP@InspiringThem.com 


1. What are your Interests

2. Identifying your values

3. Determining your Personality

4. Personal Inventory Outline

5. Career Interest Areas

I would also recommend reading about ways to develop your interests into a rewarding career, one book I have read several times is: Rich Dad Poor Dad, tells the story of Robert Kiyosaki and his two dads—his real father and the father of his best friend, his rich dad—and the ways in which both men shaped his thoughts about money and investing. The book explodes the myth that you need to earn a high income to be rich and explains the difference between working for money and having your money work for you.

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Solve this problem, solving financial problem, solve a problem

Solve this problem, solving financial problem, solve a problem is a question I’m ask often. What are the steps to solving a problem? How do I come up with a solution? the-stress-92296-s

These are all questions everyone has asked at sometime in their life. I have found that you need to reflection and go about a more formal process to really solve any problem. When I say problem, it doesn’t have to really be a problem, it could be a wish, goal, dream or anything your really want out of life.

I use a four step process to problem solving:

1. Identify the problem

2. List the solutions

3. Test the solutions sorrow-and-worry-692910-s

4. Review the results

Step #1

In step one you need to clearly identify the problem, you must ask yourself questions and record the results to really determine what the actual problem is. Some questions you should asked yourself in trying to identifying the problem. What is the problem? Who or what does it involve? Where is the problem and what is happening that causes the problem? How is the problem affecting you, others and your surroundings? What are the obstacles in my way for solving this problem?

Step #2

In step two you must list some solutions on how you can solve the problem. I list at least three different ways I could solve this problem. Again in this step you must ask yourself some questions. How can I overcome the obstacles on my way to solving this problem? List your solutions and then determine how each would effect the outcome.

Step #3

In step three you need to take the solutions you listed and begin to use them, test them out and determine if they work or which one works the best. After testing out your multiple solution’s determine which one you think would solve your problem the best and put it to use to solve your problem.

Step #4

In step four your review the results over time to determine if the problem was solved and if the solution is something you need to make part of your daily routine. Once you find a solution that works make it a habit and your problem will stayed solved.

Keep in mind when solving one problem with a solution it could lead to another problem you did not consider in the early process. Many times a solution to a problem creates another problem. Its all a part of the MOVE FORWARD process in life, your always solving some sort of problem each and every day, learn to use a four step formal process, and write them down and you will never have to stress again trying to solve a problem. is-it-friday-yet-704781-s

Problem solving is what makes life interesting! Enjoy the process!


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4 types of leadership styles

4 types of leadership styles laptop-493668-s

I have found over the years that leadership is learned, not something you are born with. There are 4 types of leadership styles that are learned from experience you gain from working in group settings. One trait I found from talking to many leaders throughout the years is that leaders are ongoing learners, they never stop learning, reading and seeking out  as much information as they possible can. You will find that most leaders keep a file with inspirational leadership quotes that they review daily or weekly.

Leadership is learned 

The 4 types of leadership styles I have seen are:

1. Setting the example

2. Enlisting the help of others

3. Experiment and taking risks

4. Putting others first, mentoring for self improvement

Setting the example

Most leaders I have had the pleasure of working with either have these four styles or a least two of them. Leaders set an example for the people they lead, they do not just tell people what to do, they actually show them, support them and then practice what they preach on a daily basis. The best leaders are those who teach with the desire to educate those around them to make them the best possible person they can be. Leaders are not the ones looking for the credit for everything, in fact they enjoy letting others get the credit. I once read a quote by Zig Ziglar that sums this all up: “Help enough other people get what they want in life and you will get what you want in life.” 

Enlisting the help of others business-man

Great leaders know that nothing in this world can be accomplished without the help of others. No matter what your looking to achieve in life it will take the help of others or at least one person along the way. Make friends, reach out of your confront zone and speak with those you really don’t know. Opportunity in life can come from the least expected place, if you pass by with out speaking to others those opportunities will stay hidden for ever.

Experiment and take risks

Remember its about opportunities and trying things out of your comfort zone you must be a risk taker, someone who is not afraid to fail. Failure is just a learning experience and you must view it that way. The highly successful leaders are the ones that use failure to fuel there achievement. If you never try, you will never learn.

Putting others first, mentoring for self improvement

The great leaders are always looking to help others first, their overall goal is helping to improve the people around them. All leaders strive to make everyone they come in contact with better then they were before they met. Successful leaders know they cannot do it alone, they reach out to others, try to improve them and seek out others who have different skills sets then theirs. A great leader doesn’t have to do everything by themselves, they surround themselves with others that are strong at the things the leaders are not.

Leaders develop habits

All leaders develop daily habits that include those 4 types of leadership styles. Its in those daily habits that leaders find there success, without daily habits you will just be floating through life without making any progress. One the best books I have ever read is one of the most inspiring and impactful books ever written, ​The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey has captivated readers for 25 years. It has transformed the lives of Presidents and CEOs, educators and parents— in short, millions of people of all ages and occupations

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